wine is bad for you.

So here’s an interesting story that involves me and my mother. So when I was little, I was always taught in school that drugs and alcohol are bad. When I found out that wine had alcohol in it and that my mom was drinking it, I was furious! I used to get so mad at her whenever she drank wine that I would lock myself in my room out of anger.

Bless my mom…one day at a family gathering that was held at my house, my mom was drinking a glass of wine. I stormed out of the kitchen and locked myself in my room, as usual. When my mom came and found me she asked me why I was so upset and I told her it was because she was drinking wine and I didn’t like that. She then said, “Well Gramps (my grandpa) drinks wine, but you don’t get mad at him.” I replied with, “Because he’s not my mom.” Seeing the tears, the pain, and the hurt in my eyes, my mom took me by the hand and led me to the kitchen. She showed me the glass of wine and proceeded to pour it down the drain. She made sure I saw this happening so that I would know she wouldn’t be drinking wine for the rest of the night. As a matter of fact, I think that was the last time she ever drank wine until I grew out of that phase and realized that wine isn’t necessarily bad for you.

Looking back on it now, I feel like a complete loser, but as a child, all of that completely makes sense. I thought my mom was harming herself by consuming what I thought was this toxic beverage. But on that day, my mom made a sacrifice for me. Because I was that important to her, she never drank wine after that night. She didn’t have to do that, but because she loves me and she wanted to see me happy, she did what was best for her kid.

Today, my mom and I still look back on that and laugh. It’s just interesting to tap into the mind of a child and to try and remember what I was thinking at the time and all of that. My mom truly is the best for what she did for me.


Can you think of an instance where your mom/dad made a sacrifice for you as a child? How did it make you feel?

2 thoughts on “wine is bad for you.

  1. dsantos85 says:

    My asthma was out of control when I was younger and was CONSTANTLY sick. In and out of the hospital. My poor parents had recently moved to the US from brasil so they were getting their lives together. The sacrifice many nights staying up with me, rushing me to the hospital, taking me to various “asthma specialists,” always trying to find a way to get me to feel better, and spending what little money they had on my medicines.

    They’re incredible parents and I’m so lucky to have them in my life. They truly did sacrifice so much in order to make sure I got the best care possible.

    • beautifuldarkmystery says:

      I’m sorry to hear that. Well, I hope you’re doing better now. Our parents are pretty special people in our lives and we’re fortunate that they would do anything for us. Thank you for sharing your story.


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